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A BPD/NPD woman basically brainwashes you into believing that she’s a saint, that she puts up with you, that she’s the victim and you’re the bad guy.
If you receive these messages on an endless loop, eventually, you’re going to start to believe it.
But emotionally, it was both hard to disengage from the shock over her betrayal and worrisome that I might end up in another relationship with a destructive personality disordered woman.
That’s a very real risk for those of us who have had these relationships, but the reasons vary.
Think of your kindergarten age child telling you that he hates you because you’re a bad father in his mommy-talk language and then asking in the next breath, with a smile on his face, if you’d like to play baseball in the backyard now because it was so much fun when you did that together last weekend.The false abuse allegations were just a more extreme and evident version of her past behaviors.I was aware of the parental alienation because I saw the results of it in our youngsters.Sounds easy, but I, for the life of me cannot find the strength and courage to make the right decision, even though I clearly know what it is. I asked my parents to read the blogs as well to assist with their understanding, as they may be involved in some capacity with the process of my leaving.After reading your response, my Mother ask if I would write to you and request your opinion related to the transformation of one’s personality and behavior when they are exposed to an abusive partner for as long as I have been.